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[:en]Dark skies, happy thoughts [:sv]Regntunga skyar, men ett glatt sinne[:]

[:en]Dark skies, happy thoughts [:sv]Regntunga skyar, men ett glatt sinne[:]

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[:en]The ones reading my blog are aware of me trying to come to terms with a personal relationship issue, and I can’t say I’m healed, but at least I’m feeling a lot better for various reasons. One of them being that I’m allowing myself to heal. I’m quite lovable come to think of it. Besides I’m at a point in life where nothing I do seems to go wrong and I’m excited about so many things to come. There aren’t really any dark skies except the ones in the beckoning autumn season which some claim is coming, but my mind is still set on summer. That’s why I’m still wearing my ripped jeans as long as I can before my knees freeze and I’ll be wearing long johns (that was a secret which is not to be told, but I’m freezing even in the warmest of temperatures so imagine me in the Swedish winter…).

Of course even I have my dark moments, but they are quite easy to overcome by doing things that make you happy or thinking about what’s been, what is and what’s to come. Imagine a life in which everything is possible. That’s what I’m doing. Nothing is stopping me from achieving what I’m dreaming of. Some dreams may be impossible to reach as they don’t only depend on what I want, but have an impact from how others react, but most things in life you are able to affect by being positive, working hard, loving yourself and loving others. I’m full of love today so despite the dark skies outside I’m actually a little bundle of sunshine right now. I made it more than halfway throug the week and I couldn’t be happier! Hope all of you can find your happy place too. I’ve found mine, and yes in plural, that means I have lotsa happy places. 🙂

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Cardigan: H&M
Tee: Filippa K
Watch: Triwa
Jeans: H&M
Shoes: H&M

Photos: Julia Billing[:sv]De som läst min blogg har nog förstått att jag kämpat rätt hårt med ett relationsrelaterat trauma på sistone. Även om mitt hjärta inte läkt än, så känns livet ljust. På alla plan! Det finns knappt något som känns omöjligt just nu och vad jag än gör verkar gå min väg. Såhär hade jag inte tänkt bara ett år sedan då jag som person är någon helt annan än jag var då. Idag är jag en mer öppen, levnadsglad, älskande och älskad person än jag någonsin varit. Denna personliga utveckling har lett till att jag tror på mig själv och min egen förmåga och starkt påhejad av andra tar jag mig an nya utmaningar konstant.

Då det så sakteliga går mot höst passar jag på att använda mina slitna jeans så länge jag kan. När jag fryser om knäna går det ju inte längre och med tanke på att jag ALLTID är frusen så är det till allas glädje (åtminstone dem som förfärats över att jag betalat extra för att ha byxor som redan från början är “sönder”) jag så småningom går över till höstutstyrseln och med tanke på den svenska vintern samt det faktum att det blåser KONSTANT i Malmö så måste jag erkänna att långkalsonger är ett favoritplagg i många lägen. Dem kommer ni däremot inte se en skymt av på bloggen hur kallt det än är, men ni kan lugna era oroliga sinnen med att jag åtminstone bär dem under mina utstyrslar. Så trots den annalkande hösten och de tunga skyarna är det med ett lätt hjärta jag idag går vidare i livet. En dag i taget helt enkelt.

 

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Cardigan: H&M
Tisha: Filippa K
Klocka: Triwa
Jeans: H&M
Skor: H&M

Foton: Julia Billing[:]

31 Comments

  1. Stephanie
    September 22, 2016 at 8:08 pm
    Reply

    These photos are AHMAZZZING. Seriously swooning over those dark clouds in the background. And also, like, can I borrow your sweater (and then maybe never it give it back)? It looks so cozy! I’m happy to hear you’ve found your happy places. They’re good to have 🙂

    Stephanie // SheSawStyle.com

    • thomasfalkenstedt.com
      September 24, 2016 at 7:50 pm

      Thank you so much Stephanie! It’s all thanks to the great photographer though.
      And feel free to, haha. I might just “borrow” something from you too 😀
      xoxo
      Thomas

  2. Sharon Wu
    September 23, 2016 at 12:41 am
    Reply

    Great photos as always, Thomas! I love those shoes!

    So glad to hear that things are slowly starting to look up for you! I told you — things can only get better with time as time heals all wounds 🙂 You’ll come out of it all stronger and a better person whether you believe it or not right now! Stay strong, love xo, sharon

    http://www.stylelullaby.com/personal/hello-fall-bucket-list/

    • thomasfalkenstedt.com
      September 24, 2016 at 7:51 pm

      With your love and support I feel like that is possible indeed! Thanks Sharon! 🙂
      xoxo
      Thomas

  3. Eric K
    September 23, 2016 at 1:44 am
    Reply

    It’s is so amazing to hear that you are doing better and time is healing all wounds. Stay positive and it will only get better.
    Thank you for sharing your personal stories buddy. Always pleasure to read them…
    Waiting for more . Take care buddy ????????

    http://www.erickfashion.com

    • thomasfalkenstedt.com
      September 24, 2016 at 7:51 pm

      Thanks my friend! You keep me going Eric! 🙂

  4. Atsuna Matsui
    September 23, 2016 at 3:39 am
    Reply

    I love your super clean style!

    xoxo
    http://www.atsunamatsui.com

    • thomasfalkenstedt.com
      September 24, 2016 at 7:52 pm

      Thank you so much Atsuna! 🙂
      xoxo
      Thomas

  5. Skillberg
    September 23, 2016 at 5:12 am
    Reply

    Amazing photos, amazing look, amazing location ?Keep up the good work

    • thomasfalkenstedt.com
      September 24, 2016 at 7:52 pm

      Thanks sweetie! 😀
      xoxo
      Thomas

  6. Molly Clifton
    September 23, 2016 at 4:03 pm
    Reply

    I’m so happy to hear you are doing a bit better 🙂 I love these photos! Your outfit is perfect for the weather. And YES! Wear those distressed denim while you can. I know I am!

    Keep smiling!
    Molly | http://www.stylemissmolly.com

    • thomasfalkenstedt.com
      September 24, 2016 at 7:53 pm

      Haha, as long as you wear them I know I will! 🙂 And thanks for the support.
      xoxo
      Thomas

  7. Bernice
    September 23, 2016 at 10:11 pm
    Reply

    It’s great to hear about you coming to terms with certain issues and working through them in a productive and open way.

    http://www.bunnybernice.com/single-post/2016/09/21/Perspex-Heels

    • thomasfalkenstedt.com
      September 24, 2016 at 7:53 pm

      Thank you so much Bernice! 🙂
      xoxo
      Thomas

  8. Gina Diaz
    September 24, 2016 at 5:38 am
    Reply

    Amazing, amazing! excellent photo shoot and styling. You are great my sweet friend 🙂 it nice to hear that you are feeling much better. Happy weekend & much love, Gina

    • thomasfalkenstedt.com
      September 24, 2016 at 7:59 pm

      Thank you so much Gina! Your words mean a lot to me! 🙂
      xoxo
      Thomas

  9. Alessio
    September 24, 2016 at 5:22 pm
    Reply

    I love your post Thomas and I’m totally in love with your looks!! 🙂

    http://www.alessioalcini.com

    • thomasfalkenstedt.com
      September 24, 2016 at 8:00 pm

      Thanks a lot buddy! 😀 That means a lot coming from you!

  10. Adelina
    September 24, 2016 at 7:37 pm
    Reply

    Great styling Thomas!! I am
    Happy to hear that you are a bundle of sunshine!! I’m always cold too and I don’t know how you do it in those Swedish winters! But that’s still a season away! One day at a time, right?! Xo, Adelina

    http://thecharmingolive.com

    • thomasfalkenstedt.com
      September 24, 2016 at 8:00 pm

      Haha, well I don’t really do them, I kinda hibernate and try to survive the best way I can… But you couldn’t be more on point there: One day at a time! 😀
      xoxo
      Thomas

  11. Joy
    September 24, 2016 at 7:54 pm
    Reply

    Love to hear that all is well! Also you write beautifully, I love reading your blogposts!

    Lots of love from Canada!
    Joy xx.
    https://alittledetail.com/

    • thomasfalkenstedt.com
      September 24, 2016 at 8:01 pm

      Thank you so much my Canadian Joy! 😀 It means a lot to me!
      xoxo
      Thomas

  12. Trendy lover
    September 26, 2016 at 6:31 am
    Reply

    The pictures are amazing, I really love this and I’m glad you’ve found your happy place. You have a good day ?

    http://www.trendy-lover.com

    • thomasfalkenstedt.com
      October 5, 2016 at 8:04 pm

      Thanks so much sweetie 🙂
      xoxo
      Thomas

  13. Rachel
    September 26, 2016 at 7:20 am
    Reply

    Looks great! Cool photos!

    http://chicglamstyle.com

    • thomasfalkenstedt.com
      October 5, 2016 at 8:04 pm

      Thanks a lot Rachel! 🙂

  14. tessy
    September 26, 2016 at 7:48 am
    Reply

    Awesome! lovely outfit.

    http://www.tessyonyia.com

    • thomasfalkenstedt.com
      October 5, 2016 at 8:05 pm

      Thanks Tessy! 🙂

  15. Julia
    October 5, 2016 at 5:00 pm
    Reply

    Great photos and I’m so glad that you’re feeling a bit better!
    Julia x
    http://www.thevelvetrunway.com

    • thomasfalkenstedt.com
      October 5, 2016 at 8:05 pm

      Aww thanks sweetie! 🙂
      xoxo
      Thomas

  16. Linh Dao
    October 6, 2016 at 1:59 am
    Reply

    Love this! The pictures are amazing! Thanks for sharing~

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